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RULE 5: Never ever under any circumstance allow yourself to settle for one woman – chase one woman – dream of one woman – until you have complete confidence in your competence in many areas.
So a beautiful girl has caught your eye and you’ve been speaking a bit, now is the time to ask her out. As we’ve said, women like confidence and assertiveness so make sure you ask her out properly! Don’t come up with a vague proposal of a plan or give her too many options to choose from so nothing gets established. Simply come up with a good date idea; one where you can speak and get to know each other properly (like a drink or a coffee) and give her a time and a place.
#8 Be a good listener. This is essential. Everyone likes having someone to talk to, especially women.
It’s a lot easier than you think – so stop thinking so much and start DOING what it takes because the answer you seek is right here. This rule is here to make sure you don’t just settle for that first girl. To assure you’re not chasing anymore. To assure you WILL be ready when the time and the right woman comes along. Part of this “prep work” is to lay the foundation for a lifetime of success with women.
So that even if she rejects you, you don’t feel rejected because ‘you weren’t really trying’. How do you know if you’re doing this or not?
- Any woman looking for a long-term relationship is in this mindset, and they’re not going to commit to you and be looking to be your girlfriend if you can’t provide these basic elements of human connection.
- Call or text the girl you are interested in within one to three days.
- Or maybe you’ve found out that you want a relationship more than you want to live the bachelor lifestyle.
- If you contact her right away she might feel stifled.
Ryan Gosling? Brad Pitt? Yeah, sure, they’re attractive guys, but they sweat confidence. Confidence shows you’re emotionally stable, you know what you want, and you know who you are. If you’re wondering how you can be more confident, start by doing things that make you feel good and start to convey a positive outlook on life.
At a university, you have the freedom to go where you please and create your own schedule without anyone telling you what to do. If you have never had a girlfriend, this is a great time to start dating.
You win. I lose. Just another day at the park.
What you may have noticed is that some guys, when they meet women, are able to start talking to them and sparks fly immediately between themselves and the woman. He meets women, feel sexually attracted to them and doesn’t say or do anything during the interaction to make the woman feel sexually attracted and turned on by him.
Hey I’m Pete – (Peter White) – I run whydoguys.com for women and DiaLteG TM for guys like you. Simply put – I know WOMEN and what it’s going to take to get you the woman of your dreams.
I am the nicest guy I know. I’ve evolved into the kind of guy I wanted to be and I really like myself. Your good advice didn’t help and the personal stories at the end detailing how after a daunting 5 year search you found her at Starbucks felt like a knife in my back.