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She usually seems happy when talking to me. I haven’t seen her act the way she does around other guys. I asked her to hangout once and she said yes. She brought a friend but she said she was fine if it was just her and I. When I was hanging out with them, a girl I know passed by and I told them that I knew them.
This can be a subtle and polite way of her letting you know she’s not into you, or a sign that she implicitly treats you as a friend. This goes both ways, though.
Similarly, if she breaks plans with you more than once in a short span of time, that’s a sign she’s not interested. Keeping plans with you might not seem like that big of a deal — for many people, that can seem like basic courtesy — but a girl who keeps plans usually likes the person she’ll be seeing. If she doesn’t, she’d find a reason to cancel or else just totally flake on you, a universal sign that she’s just not that interested. It’s a simple act, but letting you walk or drive her home (or just walk her to her car) can be a sign of interest.
Does she always find an excuse to talk to you or text you? Does she always offer you coffee in the office? Maybe she always texts you in the morning? She may not do this to her other friends, but she always makes an effort to talk to you.
‘Old Friendships’ Doesn’t Mean ‘Good Friendships’
- Let’s say she won’t look at you, or talk to you at all, and when you ask her questions she responds to someone else instead of to you.
- If you are taking a nice walk outside and come across some of her friends, you may notice the friends behaving weirdly around you.
- So this girl I work with, just told me she wants to be my best friend (I know, I got friend zoned).
- This sign of a girl’s attraction is particularly useful if you haven’t spent too much time alone yet but are already seemingly interested in each other.
But at the same time she tells me stuff about her boyfriend and ex’s on what they did that made her mad and others like the things she like about them. And she also she I pay more attention to her then her actual boyfriend. But the big problem is the girl I like is my best friend girlfriend. So lastly I don’t know if she is just using me to babysit her kid or if she actual likes me. So could use all the help I can get.
This is basic psychology. If a girl talks to you a lot about her day, then it is likely that she wants you to know more about her. She wants to let you in her life and be a part of it. She wants to share her thoughts and feelings because you’re important to her.
What does this mean? Girls won’t just touch any guy unless she likes him. If you notice that your female friend does this to you, then take it as a sign that she’s interested in you more than just a friend.
Letting you get close to her is a good sign that a girl probably starting to like you too. When a girls gives you a nickname, especially a teasing one, that’s a clear text sign a girl likes you. Do her friends say hey whenever they see you, even though they hardly know you? It’s most likely because she’s spoken to them about you at length. A girl might not openly tell a guy that she’s into him but she will tell her squad so if they know who the hell you are and seem to like you too then it’s probably because she’s really into you and has been talking you up massively.
But a little playful jealousy over you talking to other girls is just her showing you how she truly feels, that is, that she wants you all to herself. One of the best ways to avoid the possibility of rejection is to make sure that the girl you’re asking on a date likes you, too.
If that happens, there’s a damn good chance that she likes you so much that she’s freezing up and doesn’t know what to do. Of course she might actually hate you but realistically unless you’re genuinely an unlikeable asshole that’s probably not the case. Also girls tend to like and trust guys that their friends vouch for so if you have mutual friends there’s no real reason for her to actively dislike you. This one is tried and true but it’s still worth mentioning. If a girl goes out of her way to let you know that she thinks you’re funny then that’s a massive indicator of her interest.